Dom's Guide To Dating
Dating Requires Patience And The Egg-Like Approach:
Honestly, I work really hard and I play even harder. I try to keep my personal time personal and I keep a very strict schedule. In my dating life, I’m dating everybody---- let me provide clarification on that. I’m single and in order for me to eventually find a husband, I need to go out on all the dates! I make time to socialize and date. Usually I go for dinner or drinks after work, or coffee on the weekends. I’m a very social person; it’s a huge part of my personality, so I must feed the need to be out. I just make sure I’m selective with how I “go out.” Often times I merge dating with hanging out with friends; it kind of kills two birds with one stone. I love a good Sunday-Funday situation or brunch, that’s usually how I hang out.
Dating is a great thing when you are single. I think women should date, not sleep with, but definitely date any guy who is interested in dating her. Until you are in a committed relationship take all the dates! Only then can you learn what you like, what you don’t like, and how to prepare for your spouse. Dating, if done correctly, will teach you a lot about yourself and about how men think, what they like and dislike, and how they need to be handled. I think a guy needs serious patience and a huge amount of confidence to date me or any other successful woman. We are A LOT! We come with a lot. Speaking for myself, I’m sharp and sassy, super busy, and very stubborn (“no” is never the final answer with me), which has been great for business but could be bad for dating. I’m working on it, but the best thing any guy can do to date me, is to be patient. Also, they need to be very self-assured and confident, not arrogant. I know a lot of people, I know a ton of guys, and I have a lot of access. The right guy for me won’t be intimidated by those things and he will understand that those circumstances are a huge part of my business and have attributed to my success. I’m literally in the business of being social. I need a guy who understands that strong, successful women are usually very delicate; think of us like eggs. We are hard on the outside because we often are taught to be that way or are required to be firm in business. However, when we get home or in our personal space, we want to be soft and mushy. We want to cry and complain to our men and feel supported. I don’t want to be the man in my relationship, but I need to trust the guy I’m dating to lead in me in the right way in order to relinquish the control”.